I am often shocked by how many people out there, both male and female, are just completely neglecting their love lives. So many of them seem to take on this attitude of “oh well, love is bound to find me soon or later, so I’m just going to relax, and not worry about it.”
9 times out of 10 I think that these people know, in their heart of hearts, that they are just lying to themselves, and that 1, 2 even 5 years from now they are likely to be stuck in the same exact situation, with no lover, no dates, and basically a bleak future stretching out in front of them. I mean sure, we all lie to ourselves sometimes, to some extent, but when it comes to matters of the heart this is just such a massive disservice that they are doing to themselves.
What’s makes this phenomenon even weirder, in my opinion, is the fact that these folks flatly refuse to acknowledge all of the great information and resources that are out there for them to help them to get this area of their lives handled. For example, there’s Vin Dicarlo’s Pandoras Box, a program that has been around for years and which has helped tons of men to get dates, girlfriends and passionate lovers. This program attempts to educate men about the female mind, to help men improve their communication skills with women and be more charming.
And of course there are programs for women too, and all kinds of books on Amazon. There is info out there for everybody, but for some reason people aren’t always willing to invest the time that is necessary in order from them to sufficiently learn about, think about, and take action on improving their dating lives.
In the end you can’t really force people to start taking responsibility for their dating lives. It’s a personal decision that everybody must make for themselves. But, if you are somebody who hasn’t had a date in a long time I’d seriously consider checking out one of these educational training courses like the Pandora’s Box System to help you with improving your dating skills.